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For many, the transition through divorce, being widowed, or the experience of being single is the loneliest and most frightening time of their lives, often triggering profound depression, financial uncertainty, and social isolation. Finding the necessary support can feel like a daunting task, especially when professional help is financially prohibitive. While people naturally turn to their church community, smaller congregations face a significant challenge: they simply don't have the resources or a large enough singles group to sustain a ministry. This leaves a critical gap in care. One In Him exists to close that gap. We facilitate a practical, effective solution: pooling resources and single members from a collective of smaller churches in a region to ensure comprehensive and accessible support for everyone. We are currently serving the Kansas City metro, but if you have interest in starting a chapter in your area, please contact us.
Our mission is centered entirely on supporting single Christians throughout every stage of their journey. Our services are tailored to meet the needs of all singles: from those going through a breakup, the recently divorced or widowed, to those focused on singlehood, and those who are ready to explore new relationships. Furthermore, we recognize that forming a new, God-centered relationship requires unique support. We are committed to walking with new couples as they navigate the complex and exciting transition from being single to becoming a committed partnership as they work toward that God-centered marriage.
One In Him functions as a 501(c)(3) nonprofit corporation by filling a critical gap in care for singles. We achieve this by providing a practical, accessible, and comprehensive support system that smaller congregations, due to limited resources and membership, can't sustain on their own. We serve the community by pooling the resources and single members from multiple smaller churches within a region, creating a vibrant, centralized, and effective ministry tailored to all stages of a single person's journey—from those needing immediate grief or transition support to those exploring a God-centered relationship and the subsequent path toward marriage. This collaboration ensures that essential emotional, financial, and social support is equitably available to everyone regardless of their specific church's size, thereby strengthening the regional Christian community as a whole.
We believe that One In Him is stronger when we listen to the churches we serve. That's why we invite every participating church to join our Advisory Committee. The goal of this committee is simple: to make sure our ministry is always an asset to our participating churches and their single members.
The Advisory Committee ensures that every event and program we offer fully supports participating church's core values and mission. Your representative will be our key partner, sharing the unique needs and ideas of your single members with One In Him leadership. This guarantees that our events are always relevant, meaningful, and highly effective for the community.
Social events are the heart of our mission because they are the most effective way to combat the loneliness, depression, and isolation that often accompany singleness. In our experience, many singles struggle to find their place in traditional church settings, which are often oriented around couples and families. This can lead to them feeling out of place or even judged, especially following a divorce. Our goal is simple: to bring together Christian singles from various churches to create a safe, judgment-free space where they can socialize, build relationships, and share their unique journeys. We regularly host monthly socials at local churches and celebrate major occasions with joyful holiday events. The best part? We empower our singles to drive the fun—hosting other exciting events ensuring a vibrant and diverse calendar of activities for everyone.
Fellowship with other singles was the start of our mission, but we also believe a supportive community and learning are at the base of healing. Our Education and Support programs are dedicated to equipping Christian singles with the tools to navigate life's most challenging transitions. We offer compassionate, faith-centered guidance designed to help members heal from the deep pain of a breakup, the complexity of divorce, or the profound grief of widowhood and the challenges of addiction and anger. Through workshops, small groups, and mentorship, we provide sound biblical teaching and practical strategies on emotional health, forgiveness, and establishing new routines. The core of this pillar is teaching you how to anchor your happiness not in a relationship status, but in a vibrant, fulfilling relationship with Christ, enabling you to step into a life of genuine joy and contentment regardless of your circumstances.
Our Christian faith is a call to radical love, beautifully summarized in the Great Commandment to love God and love our neighbor. It is through acts of compassion, generosity, and service that we most authentically demonstrate the transformative power of Christ's love to the world. A ministry that is truly alive will always be actively engaged in its community. When we volunteer, we are not simply doing good works; we are living out the Gospel, providing practical support, hope, and affirmation of Christ’s message. For this reason, our ministry continuously partners with local organizations to provide hands-on volunteer opportunities. We believe that every member is gifted for service. We not only recommend participation; we commit to equipping and encouraging every person to step out in faith and make a measurable difference in the lives of those around us.
Check out our Facebook group to find more information on Events you can join.
As President and Chairman, Andrew blends nearly three decades of corporate leadership with a lifelong commitment to faith and service. After a distinguished 29-year career in IT and senior leadership, Andrew redirected his expertise to serve a community close to his heart: Christian singles. Driven by his own post-2017 journey through divorce, Andrew is passionately dedicated to ensuring that no Christian single walks alone through the challenges of divorce, widowhood, or the season of singleness. His core mission is to provide accessible support and fellowship—especially for the underprivileged—and to transform challenging times into opportunities for spiritual growth and community connection.
Kay serves as the Secretary and Vice-Chairperson, bringing a wealth of professional discipline and deep personal empathy to the board. As a Registered Nurse and college professor, Kay excels in creating supportive, structured environments and applying clear communication and organizational skills—all vital to the ministry's effectiveness. Her commitment to Christian singles support is both professional and personal. Having been divorced for many years, she possesses a firsthand understanding of the long-term journey through singleness. Furthermore, her roles as a mother and grandmother underscore her dedication to nurturing and supporting families. Kay is passionate about ensuring the organization provides not just fellowship, but also practical, compassionate care to help singles thrive in every season of life.
Brian serves as the organization's Treasurer bringing sharp business acumen to the ministry's financial oversight. His background includes successful ventures in highly competitive sectors, ensuring the nonprofit maintains fiscal integrity and sustainability. Brian applies this professional discipline to maximize the organization's reach and impact. Brian's commitment stems from having navigated divorce since 2018, he deeply understands the challenges faced by the Christian singles community. This experience fuels his passion for service and his dedication to providing tangible support. Beyond his financial duties, Brian is a strong advocate for personal mentorship and one-on-one fellowship, believing firmly in the power of guided, personal connection to help others find hope and community during difficult seasons.
Our Statement of Faith: These are the core Christian doctrines that define the organization's spiritual identity.
The Authority of Scripture
The Bible is the inspired, infallible, and final authority for faith and conduct. This means the Bible is the ultimate blueprint for serving others and managing the organization. Scriptural Reference: 2 Timothy 3:16
Belief in the Triune God
Affirming the existence of one God eternally existent in three persons: Father, Son (Jesus Christ), and Holy Spirit.
The Deity and Work of Jesus Christ
Believing in Jesus' deity, virgin birth, sinless life, vicarious and atoning death, bodily resurrection, and ascension, and his eventual return.
Salvation by Grace through Faith
Believing that salvation from sin is a gift from God, received only through faith in Jesus Christ, not by good works.
The Indwelling of the Holy Spirit
Believing the Holy Spirit lives within believers, empowering them to live a godly life, pray, and serve.
Not just words, but Actions: In EVERYTHING we do we incorporate our Core Values, which translate the organization’s theological convictions into operational practice.
Universal Compassion (Agape)
We ensure the organization remains a tangible expression of unconditional love.
Standard of Conduct: Services must be provided to all individuals regardless of creed, religion, identity, or background.
Operational Focus: Prioritize initiatives that identify and alleviate the suffering of the poor and oppressed.
Diligent Stewardship
We acknowledge that all corporate resources (financial, human, and physical) are held in trust and ultimately belong to God (Psalm~24:1).
Standard of Conduct: Maintain the highest levels of transparency and integrity in financial reporting.
Operational Focus: Commit to wise investment, debt avoidance, and the efficient use of donor contributions to build public trust.
Humility and Servant Leadership
We shall model the self-sacrifice of Christ, prioritizing the needs of the community over institutional or personal ego.
Standard of Conduct: Practice active listening and cultural sensitivity in all partnerships.
Operational Focus: Seek the empowerment of the communities served rather than seeking public recognition or institutional status.
Spiritual Dependency
We recognize that lasting transformation requires divine guidance beyond human strategy.
Standard of Conduct: Incorporate prayer as a foundational element of our discernment and decision-making processes.
Operational Focus: Seek spiritual alignment and guidance before the approval of new initiatives or strategic shifts.
Nondenominational Unity
We shall uphold the organization’s commitment to a nondenominational identity, focusing on the core tenets of the Christian faith rather than sectarian distinctions.
Standard of Conduct: Refrain from imposing or prioritizing specific denominational doctrines, liturgical preferences, or ecclesiastical polities in the execution of official duties.
Operational Focus: Ensure that all ministry programs, hiring practices, and partnerships remain inclusive of the diverse Christian traditions represented within the organization’s staff and service community.
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